成大事必備9種能力、9種手段、9種心態

一：沉穩 

（1）不要隨便顯露你的情緒。 

（2）不要逢人就訴說你的困難和遭遇。 

（3）在徵詢別人的意見之前，自己先思考，但不要先講。 

（4）不要一有機會就嘮叨你的不滿。 

（5）重要的決定儘量有別人商量，最好隔一天再發佈。 

（6）講話不要有任何的慌張，走路也是。 

二：細心 

（1）對身邊發生的事情，常思考它們的因果關係。 

（2）對做不到位的執行問題，要發掘它們的根本癥結。 

（3）對習以為常的做事方法，要有改進或優化的建議。 

（4）做什麼事情都要養成有條不紊和井然有序的習慣。 

（5）經常去找幾個別人看不出來的毛病或弊端。 

（6）自己要隨時隨地對有所不足的地方補位。 

三：膽識 

（1）不要常用缺乏自信的詞句 

（2）不要常常反悔，輕易推翻已經決定的事。 

（3）在眾人爭執不休時，不要沒有主見。 

（4）整體氛圍低落時，你要樂觀、陽光。 

（5）做任何事情都要用心，因為有人在看著你。 

（6）事情不順的時候，歇口氣，重新尋找突破口，就結束也要乾淨俐落。 

四：大度 

（1）不要刻意把有可能是夥伴的人變成對手。 

（2）對別人的小過失、小錯誤不要斤斤計較。 

（3）在金錢上要大方，學習三施（財施、法施、無畏施） 

（4）不要有權力的傲慢和知識的偏見。 

（5）任何成果和成就都應和別人分享。 

（6）必須有人犧牲或奉獻的時候，自己走在前面。 

五：誠信 

（1）做不到的事情不要說，說了就努力做到。 

（2）虛的口號或標語不要常掛嘴上。 

（3）針對客戶提出的“不誠信"問題，拿出改善的方法。 

（4）停止一切“不道德"的手段。 

（5）耍弄小聰明，要不得！ 

（6）計算一下產品或服務的誠信代價，那就是品牌成本。 

六：擔當 

（1）檢討任何過失的時候，先從自身或自己人開始反省。 

（2）事項結束後，先審查過錯，再列述功勞。 

（3）認錯從上級開始，表功從下級啟動 

（4）著手一個計畫，先將權責界定清楚，而且分配得當。 

（5）對“怕事"的人或組織要挑明瞭說。 

（6）因為勇於承擔責任所造成的損失，公司應該承擔 

成大事的九種手段： 

1、敢於決斷－－克服猶豫不定的習性  

很多人之所以一事無成，最大的毛病就是缺乏敢於決斷的手段，總是左顧右盼、思前想後，從而錯失成功的最佳時機。成大事者在看到事情的成功可能性到來時，敢於做出重大決斷，因此取得先機。 

2、挑戰弱點－－徹底改變自己的缺陷 

人人都有弱點，不能成大事者總是固守自己的弱點，一生都不會發生重大轉變；能成大事者總是善於從自己的弱點上開刀，去把自己變成一個能力超強的人。一個連自己的缺陷都不能糾正的人，只能是失敗者！ 

3、突破困境－－從失敗中撮成功的資本 

人生總要面臨各種困境的挑戰，甚至可以說困境就是“鬼門關”。一般人會在困境面前渾身發抖，而成大事者則能把困境變為成功的有力跳板。 

4、抓住機遇－－善於選擇、善於創造  

機遇就是人生最大的財富。有些人浪費機遇輕而易舉，所以一個個有巨大潛力的機遇都悄然溜跑，成大事都是絕對不允許溜走，並且能縱身撲向機遇。 

5、發揮強項－－做自己最擅長的事情 

一個能力極弱的人肯定難以打開人生局面，他必定是人生舞臺上重量級選手的犧牲品；成大事者關於在自己要做的事情上，充分施展才智，一步一步地拓寬成功之路。 

6、調整心態－－切忌讓情緒傷害自己  

心態消極的人，無論如何都挑不起生活和重擔，因為他們無法直面一個個人生挫折，成大事者則關於高速心態，即使在毫無希望時，也能看到一線成功的亮光。 

7、立即行動－－只說不做，徒勞無益 

一次行動勝過百遍心想。有些人是“語言的巨人，行動的矮子”，所以看不到更為實際現實的事情在他身上發生；成大事者是每天都靠行動來落實自己的人生計畫的。 

8、善於交往－－巧妙利用人力資源  

一個人不懂得交往，必然會推動人際關係的力量。成大事者的特點之一是：善於靠借力、借熱去營造成功的局勢，從而能把一件件難以辦成的事辦成，實現自己人生的規劃。 

9、重新規劃－－站到更高的起點上  

人生是一個過程，成功也是一個過程。你如果滿足于小成功，就會推動大成功。成大事者懂得從小到大的艱辛過程，所以在實現了一個個小成功之後，能繼續拆開下一個人生的“密封袋”。 

可以講任何一種手段，都可以導致一種結果，但這個結果是不是最佳的結果，恐怕就很難說了。成大事者總是選擇最佳的手段，達到最完善的結果，這就是非一般人所能做到的。因此在成功之路上，你要想成大事，首先要解決的問題就是：你的手段對你推動成功的計畫是否立竿見影！ 

From Facebook

Undergoing another week...

This week...
i have undergone a number of unexpected occurrence
i experienced the pain of losing primary school's good friend
i cry silently

i danced funnily

i behaved extraordinarily

i acted as queen mother, sun and worker
i realized that my programming is lousy
i found that i have many things to do
i understand that everything has it own function
and...
God knows everything before i know...

Love someone...

爱一个人，要了解，也要开解； 
　　要道歉，也要道谢； 
　　要认错，也要改错； 
　　要体贴，也要体谅； 
　　是接受，而不是忍受； 
　　是宽容，而不是纵容； 
　　是支持，而不是支配； 
　　是慰问，而不是质问； 
　　是倾诉，而不是控诉； 
　　是难忘，而不是遗忘； 
　　是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代； 
　　是为对方默默祈求， 
　　而不是向对方诸多要求； 
　　可以浪漫，但不要浪费 ...

After the travelling...

after an interesting travelling, i found that...
i live in a comfort zone
i have occasion to view beautiful scenery
i have chances to eat so many wonderful food
i have opportunities to play, share, laugh and care with friends
i have family who support me sincerely

i have friends who sleep in variety of behaviors
i have God who is looking after me
Overall...........
I am in love in everything that God has given to me^~^

Life is fragile...

we do not know when is our death
we do not know when we will end our last breath
we do not know when we will lose our friends,family and beloved
we do not know when we will meet the end of this world
we do not know when how is our tomorrow
we do not know anything about our future
AFTER
tears roll down
our heart feel extreme pain
we grieve over the death
what can we do the next?
crying over and over again?
shouting here and there to release our feelings?
moody all the time?
It is meaningless.
We CAN
accept the fact
remember their faces, smiles, advices and good values
PRAY
Let our God be the first place
do the things that He wants us to do
save more and more people
from being grabbed by Satan
If you love others
Please
SAVE THEIR SOULS

engagement with Love

[1:08:08 AM] : she is ver special yo
[1:09:40 AM] : she is gentle and soft like feather
[1:09:43 AM] : ><
[1:10:16 AM] : and......she is kind just as like an Angel
[1:10:36 AM] : pure as a white dove
[1:11:19 AM] : beauty and bright as a warm summer,
                        her eye are charming as jewel
[1:12:00 AM] : her lips are as sweet as honey
                       when she is angry and sad,
                       it makes me wan to stay bside to
                       protect her
[1:15:02 AM] : when she angry, lend my chest to
                        let her hit
                        when she sad and wan to cry,
                        lend my shoulder to her to "kao"
[1:16:11 AM] : she is very important to me yo
[1:16:17 AM] : very very precious
.                       i really love her o.
                        although she is far,
                        but i noe we are very close to
                        each other
[1:21:12 AM] : even at now
[1:21:19 AM] : she are even more closer
[1:21:28 AM] : as im seeing her now
[1:21:57 AM] : owh...everytime i feel my heart
                        at ease when seeing her
                      .its time for me to tell her
[1:24:53 AM] : now...
                       the most precise time to tell
[1:25:16 AM] : it
[1:28:36 AM] : my DEAR
[1:28:52 AM] : everything i says just now,
                        is for u
[1:29:07 AM] : it is all for u
[1:29:43 AM] : im so wish tat u can feel
                        every words
                        tat i said just now dancing inside u
                        in a true love, perfection is not all
                       when true love comes, all tat
                       one c is good
[1:32:19 AM] : lastly, let me ask u a
                        very important question
[1:32:26 AM] : ok???
                        i noe, tat im not good in all
                        but...i wanted to give u my commitment
[1:34:48 AM] : my love and everything i can for u
[1:35:12 AM] : wat i want noe, is to
                       get the chance to do so
                        may i have the very good chance to be
                        the ONE tat is for u
[1:36:17 AM] : tat is to protect u
[1:36:21 AM] : to love u
[1:36:28 AM] : to be with u
[1:36:39 AM] : to care bout u
[1:36:47 AM] : to share the very love with u
[1:37:31 AM] : if u are willing, then please
                        say "i do",
                         my lady
[1:37:36 AM] : ^^
                        i do, for being my ... o
[1:40:12 AM] : i love u, my DEAR
[1:40:22 AM] : i may not be perfect

[1:40:39 AM] : but i will love u with
                        all my heart
[1:41:09 AM] : i wanted to share a true love
                        between us
                        every moment, every time tat God
                        gives us
[1:42:43 AM] : u are important for me o
[1:42:46 AM] : really
[1:43:21 AM] : DEAR DEAR, i love u o
[1:43:30 AM] : really love o
[1:43:45 AM] : i dun want to loss u in my life
[1:43:58 AM] : as my life wont be complete
                       without u
[1:45:18 AM] : feel like chasing u again
[1:45:33 AM] : but in different way
                        and circumstances

i appreciate you, my Love

I am glad...

i am thankful because...
my family is missing me
my Mm is more gentle than before
my friends are good to me
my pets are still alive
my life is not boring at all, although it is not very interesting as well
my pocket is still left money
my locker is full of food
my holiday is coming soon
my test is around the corner
my computer is still functioning
my university is assumed as good
my room is considered as...not bad>.<
my homework can be said as...acceptable T^T
my roommate is cute enough
my daily routine...is healthy.i think.^^"'
the most important is...my God is taking good care of me~
so!
i am glad for what i have^~^

today...i'm not unhappy with him

with a tiring heart
i don't know what should i say
i don't know what should i think
i just want to let him know
i too miss him
i always like to be with you
i always like to hug you
i always like to kiss you
i always like to hold your hand
i always wan to say I Love you
so miss you till i wanna to be crazy
what should i do...