New mind...

 today is the last day of 2010

With new hope,

new image,(any?? XD)

new ideas,

new behaviors,

new thinking,

new personalities(huh??),

and lastly...

a new me~

compare to last year,

there is a dramatically change now.

I come here alone,

with the only aim of studying,

with intention of bring honor to my family,

gratefully,

meet with friends, seniors, lecturers, church-mates...

their cares and helpfulness,

indicate light in the dark,

which warm my heart indeed. 

Looking back to the past,

i vehemently feel that...

no human can live without friends.

Friendship=Camaraderie,

is indispensable in lives.

Engaging with many things, situations, conditions and circumstances...

every single effort is not assured that will bear fruits...

face the fruitless effort, 

friends are the companions,

who are the angels from God,

accompany me.

Sending my wishes to all I know~

MAY God BLESS you~

LOVE YOU >.<

Recalling back...

Ding ding dang~

ding ding dang~

Christmas day was over.

Left the Christmas trees stood there silently.

Recalling back to the first day of this year, I realize...time was walking faster and faster.

If i do not catch up, i will be left by it.

I have to rush...while enjoying the time i have.

Although i cannot own and use the time like when i was still a child, i still want to observe this beautiful world, which...has been filled with the cruelty and ugliness of human.

I would like to enjoy the sunshine, which may hurt my skin somehow.

I would like to hear the nature sings, which has being softer and softer. 

Everything changes gradually?or dramatically?

I do not know.

Development, changes, advancement...All in All...is the consequences of human's deeds.

We can't stop the time, but we can enjoy every moment.

No matter the situation is how hard, how "light", how suffer, how relax...remember the time is passing by.

So and so and so~

A simple wish : 

Do not regret for what you have done = Do not take action before you think

A_Z

【Ａ】Always waiting for you.

总是在这里等着你

【Ｂ】Be with you.

和你在一起

【Ｃ】Calls you just to say Hi baby!

打电话给你就是想说声 嗨北鼻!

【Ｄ】Dear，Good night.

每晚温柔的对你说晚安

【Ｅ】Expect?the whole of you.

期待你的全部

【Ｆ】Forever stand by you.

永远在你身边?

【Ｇ】Give you what you need.

给你一切你需要的

【Ｈ】Hope you enjoy your life.

愿你享受你的生活

【Ｉ】love you.

我爱你

【Ｊ】You jump,I jump.

如影随形

【Ｋ】Kiss you when you wake.

在你醒来时偷偷吻你

【Ｌ】Learn to know you.

学习懂你

【Ｍ】Make more surprise in your life.

给你与众不同的生活

【Ｎ】Never make you cry.

永远不让你哭

【Ｏ】Offer support.

支持你

【Ｐ】Put you in my heart

把你放在我心底

【Ｑ】Quiet your fears.

停止你的害怕

【Ｒ】Run with you.

和你一起去未来

【Ｓ】Sing a song for you.

为你唱一首属于你的歌

【Ｔ】To be yours.

我是你的

【Ｕ】nderstand you.

懂你

【Ｖ】Value myself on?you.

以你为荣

【Ｗ】Wake you up everyday.

每天叫醒赖床的你

【Ｘ】XL Love.

特大号的爱

【Ｙ】You are always so addictive.

你一直是如此地令我着迷

【Ｚ】Zeal for you.

对你狂热

As an adjudicator

it was a new experience for me.
To judge and give comments.
almost a week stay at Batu Bahat, Johor.
but!!!
did not even have a chance to go out from the U, to browsing around and explore outside. huhu..
only go to KFC. X~X
By the way, thank you for Sulaiman.
A nice and friendly runner.
I am happy to know you.
And...sorry for troubling you...
I am not a good adjudicator...
I admit it.
But i will improve.
And hope that...
One day, someone would say...
"wow!U have change a lot.speak fluently N give direct and appropriate judgment!"
Gambateh~

I am worry...

I am worry...
I am scared of cant score in this semester...
I am fed up of comparing with others...
I don't want to know others' marks...
I am scared...
really...
I don't know how to face it...
I would like to run away...
Run from this cruelty...
Why I must face it?
Why I must suffer?
Why I study hard but still can't get better result?
Am I stupid?
Am I not suitable to stay here?
I do not know...
My heart pumps stronger and stronger as my final exam is coming soon.
Nerves crawl over my body...
I hope I can stand it.
I know I am weak...
I know I am stupid...
I know I am worse in making decision...
But...
I will gain strength to become mature ONE DAY...
Although I am not ready, but the fact is...no matter you are prepared or not, the day still will come.
At least...Don't be innocent.
There is a way for you.
Gambateh^^

Im...tired...

Heavenly Father, HELP me, please...

Holy Spirt, Thank You~

i attended a conference which last for two nights in Ipoh.
it is indeed a greet meeting.
I was touched by Holy Spirit...
it AMAZED!
Holy Spirit knows my feeling well...
understand i was burden and cant feel relax in my deep part of my heart.
i...
am again, renew in Jesus~
am again, gain strength and hope in Lord~
Thank you^^
it is a special experience and i would to recall back again and again~
I really hope that...everyone could be saved from Satan's Hand!
let we involve in this battle and shout out: We will win after all!!
Hallelujah~
God is coming soon...
be alert and ready~

Be satisfy...

"I was happy when i knew my result for first semester is over 3.5 GPA.
but, after i know others' results, my feeling changes instantly. I am not good as others..."
Why...
we must compare to each other??
Why...
we must be affected by others??
Are this human nature?
Cant We escape from being trapped by this circumstance?
Is there any benefits after all?
is there any rewards to defeat everyone?
Ya...some may say...if no competitive pressure, there will be no improvement.
Ya...some may say...if no comparison, we do not know how good we are or how poor we are.
Ya...some may say...I will feel extreme happy and proud of myself.
On the other hand...some may say...
Nope...compare to yourself is enough.
Nope...this will influence camaraderie.
Nope...this only makes yourself tired,frustrated and upset after all.

I would like to say...
THERE is routine to study, sleep, play, eat, bath, chat and so on.
Plan your timetable properly.
Everyday is a bless from God.
Be rejoice instead of moody.
Be positive-minded instead of negative one.
Love your life as Your God prepares to you.
His Grace is endless.

BE Contented.

S.M.I.L.E.

白頭偕老要過16關 by XENCE on Sunday, December 5, 2010 at 10:42pm

第1关 相遇

要能在合适的时间遇到合适的人

第2关 相知

了解一个人很难

恋爱中了解一个人更难

为什么闪婚这么多

还不是大家互不了解

第3关 地域

两个人能否在同一个城市工作生活

一方会不会长期出差和驻外地工作

第4关 相处

相爱总是简单

相处太难

第5关 经济

在越来越现实的大众价值观下

没有起码的经济基础

爱情成为奢望

第6关 结婚

结婚不仅是两个人的事

也是两个家族的事情

七十二拜少了哪一点都不行

第7关 生活

从花前月下的缠绵悱恻到柴米油盐的繁琐乏味

需要很好的适应

第8关 冲突

处理虽然争吵在婚前也发生过

但那时大家都不会计较太久

到了朝夕相处的婚后

能不能处理好价值观、习惯、志趣、性格各方面的冲突

就是一个绕不过去的问题

第9关 人际

结婚不仅是嫁给一个人

也是嫁给他的生活、习惯和家庭

亲友关系处理不好

就为未来埋下危机

第10关 怀孕

在注重血脉传承的中国

大部分家庭接受不了不孕不育

第11关 孕期

孕期是丈夫出轨的高发期之一

第12关 哺育

有了孩子

两人世界变成三分天下

家庭关系的转型对夫妻关系重要考验  

第13关 n年n痒

过去的七年之痒

周期已经缩短到三年、一年

且随时可能出现

第14关 诱惑

家花没有野花香

当摸着对方的手就像摸着自己的手

男女都有厌旧喜新的可能

色不易戒

情更难防

第15关 子女

教育子女教育需要夫妻双方有良好的沟通和融合

磨人

不易

第16关　健康

历经八十一难

终于到了“老来伴”的夕阳红

双方磨合的到了一定境界

还要拜托上帝少派些健康杀手



busy time

busy with assignments, projects, tests................
no time to sleep...
no time to chat...
no time to date with God...
"How dare are you, my child?"
one day...i hear this sentence...directly, merciless, straightly shoot my heart.
":I am sorry, Dear Heavenly Father...
I am too busy. "
"your work are overtaken my place.
don't you ever take a rest, listen to what i would like to say?"
"i hope so, but..."
"Listen, my dearest sister. I'm not willing to see you busy here, rush there...for me, this is meaningless life", finally, Jesus speaks out.
"oh...i also don't want to spend too much time on nonsenses. i...i...i admit that i too focus on these things.
i am tired..." suddenly, i break off, cry as loud as i could.
"I love you, my child. come towards me so that i could help you. Remember, I am the only Lord, who has the power,love,mercy,rejoice and peace. I am your Father, who are taking care of you."
"I am your Friend, who is willing to hear you and share your feelings to me", Jesus hugs me.
" I am your Guidance, who is leading you to God's prepared path, if you are willing to listen to me. burden will lift as you put it on Jesus's back", Holy Spirit surrounds me.
Trinity God.......I trust in You.

 i sleep very well today.

成大事必備9種能力、9種手段、9種心態

一：沉穩 

（1）不要隨便顯露你的情緒。 

（2）不要逢人就訴說你的困難和遭遇。 

（3）在徵詢別人的意見之前，自己先思考，但不要先講。 

（4）不要一有機會就嘮叨你的不滿。 

（5）重要的決定儘量有別人商量，最好隔一天再發佈。 

（6）講話不要有任何的慌張，走路也是。 

二：細心 

（1）對身邊發生的事情，常思考它們的因果關係。 

（2）對做不到位的執行問題，要發掘它們的根本癥結。 

（3）對習以為常的做事方法，要有改進或優化的建議。 

（4）做什麼事情都要養成有條不紊和井然有序的習慣。 

（5）經常去找幾個別人看不出來的毛病或弊端。 

（6）自己要隨時隨地對有所不足的地方補位。 

三：膽識 

（1）不要常用缺乏自信的詞句 

（2）不要常常反悔，輕易推翻已經決定的事。 

（3）在眾人爭執不休時，不要沒有主見。 

（4）整體氛圍低落時，你要樂觀、陽光。 

（5）做任何事情都要用心，因為有人在看著你。 

（6）事情不順的時候，歇口氣，重新尋找突破口，就結束也要乾淨俐落。 

四：大度 

（1）不要刻意把有可能是夥伴的人變成對手。 

（2）對別人的小過失、小錯誤不要斤斤計較。 

（3）在金錢上要大方，學習三施（財施、法施、無畏施） 

（4）不要有權力的傲慢和知識的偏見。 

（5）任何成果和成就都應和別人分享。 

（6）必須有人犧牲或奉獻的時候，自己走在前面。 

五：誠信 

（1）做不到的事情不要說，說了就努力做到。 

（2）虛的口號或標語不要常掛嘴上。 

（3）針對客戶提出的“不誠信"問題，拿出改善的方法。 

（4）停止一切“不道德"的手段。 

（5）耍弄小聰明，要不得！ 

（6）計算一下產品或服務的誠信代價，那就是品牌成本。 

六：擔當 

（1）檢討任何過失的時候，先從自身或自己人開始反省。 

（2）事項結束後，先審查過錯，再列述功勞。 

（3）認錯從上級開始，表功從下級啟動 

（4）著手一個計畫，先將權責界定清楚，而且分配得當。 

（5）對“怕事"的人或組織要挑明瞭說。 

（6）因為勇於承擔責任所造成的損失，公司應該承擔 

成大事的九種手段： 

1、敢於決斷－－克服猶豫不定的習性  

很多人之所以一事無成，最大的毛病就是缺乏敢於決斷的手段，總是左顧右盼、思前想後，從而錯失成功的最佳時機。成大事者在看到事情的成功可能性到來時，敢於做出重大決斷，因此取得先機。 

2、挑戰弱點－－徹底改變自己的缺陷 

人人都有弱點，不能成大事者總是固守自己的弱點，一生都不會發生重大轉變；能成大事者總是善於從自己的弱點上開刀，去把自己變成一個能力超強的人。一個連自己的缺陷都不能糾正的人，只能是失敗者！ 

3、突破困境－－從失敗中撮成功的資本 

人生總要面臨各種困境的挑戰，甚至可以說困境就是“鬼門關”。一般人會在困境面前渾身發抖，而成大事者則能把困境變為成功的有力跳板。 

4、抓住機遇－－善於選擇、善於創造  

機遇就是人生最大的財富。有些人浪費機遇輕而易舉，所以一個個有巨大潛力的機遇都悄然溜跑，成大事都是絕對不允許溜走，並且能縱身撲向機遇。 

5、發揮強項－－做自己最擅長的事情 

一個能力極弱的人肯定難以打開人生局面，他必定是人生舞臺上重量級選手的犧牲品；成大事者關於在自己要做的事情上，充分施展才智，一步一步地拓寬成功之路。 

6、調整心態－－切忌讓情緒傷害自己  

心態消極的人，無論如何都挑不起生活和重擔，因為他們無法直面一個個人生挫折，成大事者則關於高速心態，即使在毫無希望時，也能看到一線成功的亮光。 

7、立即行動－－只說不做，徒勞無益 

一次行動勝過百遍心想。有些人是“語言的巨人，行動的矮子”，所以看不到更為實際現實的事情在他身上發生；成大事者是每天都靠行動來落實自己的人生計畫的。 

8、善於交往－－巧妙利用人力資源  

一個人不懂得交往，必然會推動人際關係的力量。成大事者的特點之一是：善於靠借力、借熱去營造成功的局勢，從而能把一件件難以辦成的事辦成，實現自己人生的規劃。 

9、重新規劃－－站到更高的起點上  

人生是一個過程，成功也是一個過程。你如果滿足于小成功，就會推動大成功。成大事者懂得從小到大的艱辛過程，所以在實現了一個個小成功之後，能繼續拆開下一個人生的“密封袋”。 

可以講任何一種手段，都可以導致一種結果，但這個結果是不是最佳的結果，恐怕就很難說了。成大事者總是選擇最佳的手段，達到最完善的結果，這就是非一般人所能做到的。因此在成功之路上，你要想成大事，首先要解決的問題就是：你的手段對你推動成功的計畫是否立竿見影！ 

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