today, let talk about a simple story of an ordinary couple.
officially, a couple is in a relationship for more than two years, 982 days up to now.
to other people, they will say: wow~it is long enough. how they make it?
well, i also dont know how they make it.
what i know is, their relationship is still going on like that.
however, their total meeting is not more than 365 days.
the feeling of separation is gradually changes from the extreme upset to...mild mad...until now...just like a normal day.
hey~it doesnt mean they didnt miss each other.
they do miss...but miss one another cant feed them for life.
it just means...they accept it and get used to it.
they understand...
it is only a transformation of emotion for a long distance relationship.
when there is a hard time when their lover is not beside them...
girl will hug her friends and cry it out. then sleep over and the next day chat with family. after some days, she will tell him about it with a normal tone. that time, the boy will say: wei..why did not tell me earlier ar? =.=
girl always replies: you also cant do anything after i tell you on time ar XD
they are always tease each other in the phone.
but girl knows, he is worrying her.
and boy knows, she did not want him feel worry.
hrm...here is a question. how will boy do when he is in trouble?
boy will not act like girl la. hug or cry. XP
maybe...he face it with full strength and confidently, with the help of God as well as...the energy of missing her. XD
as he says before: he want to become a partner who is worth to rely on. ^^
Conclusion:
understanding...caring...trusting...loving...will result a blessed and mature relationship. (right?@~@)
they are still waiting for the day comes.
the day when they can meet each other whenever they want.
And also...blissfully proclaim:
"he is my boyfriend."
"she is my girlfriend."
Correct. A long distance relationship met a lot of trials, it needs patience, determinations and most importantly love, which i think is the biggest homework of learning to have a long journey of relationship. Couple have their problems, and at the same time single people have their problems too. Think of the good sides and things that you own and whenever you feel contented with things that you have, everything will be alright.jia you, girl!^^
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